
Today we had soccer practice at one of our after-school programs. The field is about 1/2 mile from the school, so the boys run in a line behind me along the road, then down a dirt trail, jump over a muddy creek, cross another road, in between some shacks, across another creek, and onto the dirt field. By the time we get there, they're all warmed up and ready for practice.
Last week, some of the boys though they would break off from the line and walk to the field, and jump in to practice in their own sweet time...
Not on my team.
They had to sit out and watch as the rest of the boys played. I made sure everyone knew why they were sitting out, then they had to run laps. When they were done, I expected at least some of them to be mad and storm home, maybe threaten to quit the team. Instead, they all stayed and helped gather the balls after practice, each one wanting to hand me a ball personally to put in the bag.
It's always amazing to me how kids in situations of extreme neglect can take discipline as a sign of love. You're thinking you are making enemies out of them, and they end up becoming your most loyal companions! It's been a good year so far - we are looking forward to seeing how we measure up in the next tournament. I'll keep you posted...